Finding me

I know I'm a mom, a wife, a housekeeper, a laundry doer, basically a domestic goddess I like to call it, but I want to figure out who I really am!  I love to help people, I love people in general, I like listening, I like talking, I love to hug and smile, I like making people feel good about themselves, but I am seriously disturbed that I don't know who I actually am as a person.  I feel I have no footing in this world sometimes!  Those are all of my "traits" above, so maybe that defines me? 

What defines a person?  Their past?  Their present?  Their future?  Memories?  Interests?  Friends??  I go to look that answer up on the internet, and someone else has already asked this question, and someone's response was experience, actions in life and their will & intent.  So what I do on a day to day basis is what defines me?  Why is it that I'm wanting more?  My life just doesn't feel complete for some reason, and I need to find that missing piece! 

I absolutely adore my husband, we've been married for 8 1/2 years, and I love him so much and we say it daily, and actually mean it too!  My children are such blessings to me, they are all 3 so unique, and I love everything about them!  I want to raise them to be great women of the world that do things for others without asking for anything in return, and I believe I have already done that, as I teach them different things each day, and through my actions they see that I am willing to help out anyone and not ask for anything.  I hope that I can be the example they need to live their lives greatly, with intentions of love and blessings to all who they come in contact with. 

So, the family part of my life IS complete... I love every moment!  So, what else is there in life?  Am I missing something?  Have I forgotten something?  What else can I do to make a this world a better place?  I have prayed about this for a very long time, and I suppose writing it now is just releasing it and opening up to myself and really thinking heavily about this subject.  This is my journey in life, we only get one try at this, and I want to make it the best...